Trust and safety
Community Standards
Bars and Tables connects hosts with professional event staff. Everyone who uses it — hosts and professionals alike — agrees to these standards.
Last updated 2026
1. What Bars and Tables is for
Hiring and working as professional event staff: bartenders, servers, hosts, captains, chefs, attendants, media, transport and the other roles a real event needs, at weddings, private parties, corporate events and venues.
2. Never allowed
- Adult, escort, companionship-for-pay or sexual services of any kind.
- Nudity, partial nudity, lingerie or "clothing optional" work, or suggestive profile photos.
- Requests for "extras", private shows or anything outside the stated role.
- Drugs, weapons or any illegal activity, and serving alcohol to anyone under the legal age.
- Harassment, discrimination or threats toward anyone on or off an event.
- Moving a conversation off Bars and Tables before a client has replied, to avoid screening.
- Fake profiles, fake reviews or misrepresenting certificates and experience.
3. How we enforce it
Profiles, requests and messages are screened automatically before they are saved. Clear violations are refused; borderline wording is held for a person to review. Profile photos are checked before they appear. Anyone can press Report on a request, profile or conversation, and every report is reviewed.
Breaking these standards leads to removal of the content, suspension or permanent removal of the account, and blocking of the email and phone number used. Where the law requires it, we cooperate with the authorities.
4. If you feel unsafe
Leave the situation, contact local emergency services if needed, then report it to us at hello@barsandtables.com. Professionals are never obliged to stay at an event that breaks these standards.
